La Leche League Leaders

La Leche League Leaders
La Leche League Leaders

Sunday, March 31, 2013

April 2013 Gatherings


La Leche League of Charleston, SC
April events and fun!


Wednesday, April 3 - Sibling Park Day
10 am - 11:30 am 
Isle of Palms Recreation Center Playground
28th Avenue, Isle of Palms
Feel free to bring a friend or even your partner


Friday, April 5 - Mt Pleasant OLD VILLAGE
10:15 am - 11:30 am 
St Andrew's 440 Whilden St
No RSVP or fee required
Marlea 901.210.7541 or Scotty 864.415.3678


Tuesday, April 16 - Mt Pleasant North 
Mount Pleasant Hospital, 3500 North Highway 17 
Come any time between 9:30 am & 11 am.  
We will take any questions or just stop by to say hi!   
Leaders will be in Room 3 from 9:30 to 11:30 am.  
No RSVP or fee required
Monica 843.810.8552 or Beth 843.469.4404


Friday, April 19 - West Ashley
10:15 am to 11:30 am
John Wesley United Methodist Church
626 Savannah Highway 17
No RSVP or fee required
Hillary 843.847.1482 or  Marlo 843.278.1688





We're looking forward to seeing you and your baby at a Group meeting! If you want to learn more about La Leche League, visit our collection of resources about LLL

Friday, March 29, 2013

Get to know your local leader - Hillary



How many children do you have?
Nathan (4 years), Ainsley (22 months), and due in September with #3…Oh, yeah. My husband Andrew and he is 27. LOL

How long have you been involved with LLL and what brought you to your first meeting?
I have been a leader since the Spring of 2012 but have been involved since I can remember. My mom was an LLL leader and so was one of my sisters. I can remember going to meetings as a teenager to ‘help with toddlers,’ and really I was just soaking it all up. I have always wanted to be a mommy and I am loving this season of my life. When I got pregnant with Nathan, I was living in Germany with my husband Andrew. As soon as I got back to Charleston, I began going to LLL meetings. I was less than 30 weeks pregnant but ready to build my support community.

What is your favorite philosophy concept and why?
One of my favorite parts of the LLL Philosophy is: ‘For the healthy, full-term baby, breast milk is the only food necessary until the baby shows signs of needing solids, about the middle of the first year after birth.’ As a first time mommy, I was under the impression from friends, pediatricians, etc. that you were supposed to start feeding your baby solids once he/she hit 6 months. I should’ve listened to my mom (but who does that all of the time, right?). So the day my son was 6 months we began with bananas. We ended up stopping with solids a week or two later because he just wasn’t into it in the least. He happily began on his own at almost 11 months old. It seems so backwards that I would watch his cues to nurse but didn’t watch for his readiness cues for eating solids. Sometimes, I think we can get so wrapped up in the next ‘milestone’ that we don’t stop to enjoy where our little one is.  

What is one thing you have a great deal of experience or familiarity with?
I have dealt with oversupply and dairy intolerances with both of my babies. With my first I didn’t quite realize he had a dairy intolerance until he started eating solids. I thought that everything he was experiencing as a baby was due to my oversupply which eventually worked itself out except for some symptoms (i.e. small amounts of blood in his stool) which still came and went. With my daughter, I had a lot more information under my belt and was able to remedy these issues more quickly. I also have dealt with tongue-tie and lip-tie. My son has tongue-tie but it didn’t affect his ability to nurse. We didn’t notice his tongue-tie until MUCH later and in hindsight realize that my long period of nipple pain during the beginning was probably due to this. My daughter has lip-tie and it has never interfered with nursing.

What is your favorite meeting topic?
My favorite topic is ‘Adjusting to Life with a New Baby.’ This one is always fun! Whether you are pregnant, a new mom, or a mom of older kids you can definitely enjoy this meeting topic. For the pregnant moms, they hear how other moms handle tasks like bathing, cleaning, keep their relationship with their significant other strong, etc. Things they may have never even thought would need to be modified. For new moms, they are in it and it is very fresh on their minds. They may hear or add a new way of doing something. For seasoned moms, it is always nice to remember when your older ones were so tiny and also how doing things changes as infant becomes toddler, etc.  

Favorite thing about being an LLL Leader?
Helping empower new moms! It is great to be able to give a mom the information she needs to successfully achieve her breastfeeding goals. Whether that is providing information to help her work through a breastfeeding issue or reassuring and encouraging her in her decisions as a breastfeeding mother.

Favorite music, book, food, color?
I am pretty much all over the board as far as music goes. As for books, I am more in to research based and ‘self-help/encourgement’ type books. I like to read for information rather than for ‘pleasure’ (yes, I am a bit of a nerd : D). I absolutely love Mexican food and my favorite color is pink.

Past Jobs
Before I started a family, I was a dance teacher. I have a B.A. in Dance Performance/Choreography. I taught pretty much every age and every style except Hip Hop (I’m a total bunhead) and ballroom. 

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

La Leche League is here for Charleston, SC


La Leche League of Charleston, SC has three FREE support groups in the county.  The gatherings are open to any pregnant or adoptive moms, new or seasoned mothers and even grandmothers, sisters or female friends.  Children are always welcome to any LLL event. We also plan a few family events that include partners during the year and have playgroups in the warmer weather.  

The Leaders of the groups are all highly trained volunteers who take time to hold meetings, supply a free lending library, share support in a private facebook group, take emails and helping calls and some even do home-visits in the county for new moms.  

Ya'll come by a meeting soon and say hi soon!  



Pictured here from left to right: Carissa, Naomi, Marlo, Brittan, Hillary, Beth, Monica, Kimberly and Scotty.  Not pictured but also in Charleston County for your support are Elizabeth, Mandy & Marlea.

Friday, March 1, 2013

March Madness Fundraiser 2013



LLLadies, we need your help & support.  We are in need of funds to support our mission.  With your membership our local group can receive a portion of the funds to be able to purchase new pamphlets, books and other resources for your Group and for local families who are asking for information. 

If you have found LLL of Charleston helpful to you in anyway...via emails, phone helping, facebook or meetings we appreciate your support. Your donation will go towards buying new handouts that we share in meetings, buying new books for our library and copies of new posters and flyers for our community.

This is an optional Membership payment or donation which is tax deductible and that will benefit our local Charleston, SC Group! Our meetings remain free for any mother...member or not.

The best way is to join through a local Group, so that funds will be available in YOUR vicinity to help mothers and babies in the Low Country.  

To join your local Group, sign up with a Leader at your next meeting or simply check out our PayPal account in the sidebar on this blog.

$40 Regular Membership
$100 Sustaining Membership
$250 Platinum Membership

Or any amount you can share... 

All Membership levels includes a 10% discount in the LLLI Online Store and are tax deductible.

New members purchasing a regular, sustaining, or premier membership will receive access to an electronic publication as a bonus. 

Thanks so much for your support!
The Leaders of La Leche League of Charleston, SC

Beth, Brittan, Carissa, Elizabeth, Hillary, Kimberly, Mandy, Marlea, Marlo, Monica, & Naomi

Our Mission is to help mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and education, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding as an important element in the healthy development of the baby and mother.

http://www.lllusa.org/SC/

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

March Gatherings. Join us!

Our Mission is to help mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and education, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding as an important element in the healthy development of the baby and mother.

Meetings are always free and open to any women interested in breastfeeding.  



First Friday of each month

St Andrew’s Church 440 Whilden St
Mount Pleasant, SC
10:15 a.m.
March 1, 2013
For info on this meeting please contact Brittan or Marlo


Third Friday of each month

John Wesley United Methodist Church 626 Savannah Highway
West Ashley/Charleston SC
10:15 a.m.
March 15, 2013
For info on this meeting please contact Hillary or Marlea


Third Tuesday of each month

Mount Pleasant Hospital 3500 North Highway 17
Mount Pleasant, SC
9:30 a.m.
March 19, 2013
For info on this meeting please contact Monica or Beth


For information on evening meetings in Summerville, SC contact April or Mallory:

For a list of FAQ's check out: http://www.llli.org/faq/faqsubject.html 

Meetings are led by an accredited LLL Leader. She is a mother who has breastfed her baby and has completed La Leche League's comprehensive training program. During meetings, she shares her knowledge of breastfeeding, encourages others to share their experiences and helps clarify the La Leche League philosophy of mothering through breastfeeding. Her material is validated by experts in medical, psychological, nutritional and child development fields. Leaders present LLLI information in a loosely structured format that allows plenty of time for mother-to-mother sharing and questions. Mothers (and their babies!) enjoy the warm and supportive atmosphere that encourages mothering through breastfeeding.


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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Get to know your local leader- Brittan Gotbeter


My name is Brittan Gotbeter and I have been a La Leche League Leader since the summer of 2007. We have 3 children. Thomas is 7 1/2, West is 5 and Hartley is nearly 2 1/2. Even as a little girl I knew I wanted to be a mommy and nurse my babies, I was intrigued! I began coming to LLL meetings when Thomas was just a few months old,  my first meeting was at the West Ashley library, does anyone remember meetings there? I found out about LLL from a flyer at East Cooper Hospital when I was discharged. I called Elizabeth for some help with my allergy baby, not only was I hooked on LLL from then on, Elizabeth and I have been great friends! Finding LLL changed the whole course of my mothering and boy am I thankful!
 Although I feel confident about helping women overcome their breastfeeding obstacles I have the most personal experience with my two allergy babies. Let me preface this by saying that literature supports the fact that most women can eat and drink anything under the sun without it harming their baby. Often times women blame normal baby fussiness, gassiness & baby acne with a food allergy and it honestly isn't the case at all. Babies are fussy, gassy and have acne.. For some babies though they do have a real issue and two of mine were those.. The 2nd time around I discounted it for so long knowing the odds were that it was NOT an allergy. Thomas was nursed for a year totally free of dairy, soy, nuts, citrus, anything from a cow and more! Hartley was nursed dairy free for the 1st year of her life after suffering from severe severe colic and relux, hospital grade testing and more.( both were nursed many years past one but we did the ED the first year) Thomas was diagnosed with Celiac Disease when he was 3, ironically gluten was the only thing I didn't eliminate and used to say it was the one thing I couldn't do! He chooses to avoid dairy now, I believe it did, and still does bother him, although a test won't say so, he avoids it on his on. What kid won't eat ice cream? Nursing a baby with allergies isn't hard once you get the hang of it. The Internet is a wealth of information these days including our Charleston LLL page, the LLL forums and so many more! Often times your family begins to eat healthier because of the challenge and that can be a good thing! It was for us...
 I think what I love most about breastfeeding is, mothering through breastfeeding. Honestly after 7 1/2 years of constant nursing I wouldn't know how to parent without it! We like to joke in the meetings "When in doubt, whip it out!", we joke but it's really true, going back to the early days it builds a strong milk supply and later in the toddler years it solves nearly all boo boos, night wakings, separation issues, tantrums and more! I love that nursing for just a few minutes brings their litttle world back where it should be, they and you, can then go about your day! We've had children admitted to the hospital, break bones, have frequent night wakings, and epic tantrums, nursing can and has helped with all of these things.
 Our family enjoys living in Charleston and have no plans on going anywhere. We love the summertime, the beach, the pool and all that Charleston has to offer. Outside of LLL we stay busy with the children's schools, year around swimming and are very involved in our church.
 If I could encourage a new mom in one area it would be to trust herself and her baby.. Do not succumb to fear based parenting. This will work.Trust yourself.Trust your baby. You are not going to ruin your baby, you can't spoil them, they will wean one day, they will sleep on their own and through the night. The time with them in these formative years is so minimal compared to the rest of their lives and I honestly believe that paying dearly now will produce great results later on in their life. I've seen it with my own eyes! True independence only comes from complete dependence..
 Myself and my fellow leaders are here to help you wherever you are on your breastfeeding journey! Hope to see you at a LLL meeting and around town!

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Guidelines for Meetings


Guidelines for Meetings

La Leche League of Charleston SC Meeting Guidelines:

La Leche League believes Mothers know their children best. There is no “La Leche League way”, only what works for your family. Attending an LLL meeting and seeing other mothers breastfeed their babies helps new and expectant mothers learn how to nurture their babies too. During meetings, LLL Leaders share their knowledge of breastfeeding, encourages others to share their experiences and helps clarify the La Leche League philosophy of mothering through breastfeeding.

Meetings are always free. We encourage membership but do not expect any new mom to join to come to meetings.  If you are interested there is a PayPal account in our sidebar here on our blog.

Any woman interested in learning about breastfeeding (students, nurses, birth class instructors, etc.) are welcome. Women are encouraged to begin attending meetings as soon as they know they are pregnant.

Children: Meeting children’s needs is a priority we all understand. If you are bringing multiple children, please consider bringing a few quite items for them to play with but also remind them they may have toddlers wanting to “share” their toys so you may not want to bring their favorite ones.

Illness: if you or your child have had fever, vomiting/diarrhea or severe cough in the past 24 hours, please join us for the next meeting. If you need immediate help, please call a Leader to speak over the phone or consider hiring an IBCLC to come to you.

Food: Allergies and intolerances are a real issue for our families. Any food brought in for your child or yourself may only be shared if it is handed to the mother to give to her own child. If any food you bring falls on the floor, please promptly attend to it so that we can avoid allergy or choking hazards.

LLL meetings are ideal for learning from and making friends with other mothers. Thank you for respecting these guidelines. They are for the protection and concern for all our members, especially our newest ones. We're looking forward to seeing you and your baby at a Group meeting!